Tuesday, November 17, 2009
A Minute
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
My own army LOL
Monday, July 27, 2009
The chair.
So at 6:30pm she walks out the room looking and smelling good. So I take her back to the chair and set her down and turn on some music then I started to slowly kiss her neck and lips. ( Now if you noticed I didn't set out any panties for her to put on here is why lol. ) I continued to kiss my way down to her thighs and made my way to her spot, now after I let her cum once, I stood her up and turned her around. Had her kneel on the chair and grab the back of the chair with her hands and slowly entered from the back.
Now if you have never tried this position unless you have really wide chairs you have to go slow, which was fine for me because what this position is good for is hitting her G-Spot. So I slowly stroked her G-spot, while my hands caressed her nipples and clit. The same time my lips are on her neck and back.
Well you get the picture....... we eventually had to finish up on the bed because after awhile the seat of the chair became to slippery for her to stay in that position.
Afterwords we cleaned up and got dinner and a movie.
As usual let me know what you think as well as any suggestions to make this better.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
I washed her Hair!!!!!!!!!!
Now start out by letting her know a couple days in advance that you are going to wash her hair. Then get your supplys together. The day of the event make sure you have as many towels as you can get. I also took my finger and wrote with my finger on the mirror that I loved her so that when the heat and steam from the shower fogged over the mirror it showed up in the mirror. Now once she got in the shower I got to work, I covered the entire bathroom in towels, lit candles and placed them all over the bathroom, then I turned on some music and turned off the air condition. Now Its time for fun. So now I get naked and climb in the shower with my girl, then I slowly begin to wash her hair. Now of course I kiss her neck and her back while I massage her scalp. Rinse and repeat. Now once your done getting her hot, bothered and clean exit the shower. Leave the shower going so the room stays warm, don't dry off just get right to it, right there on the floor, on the counter, up against the wall, wet and slippery. Don't be surprised if your dru when this is over, lol.
Now if you have a large enough bathroom or no shower. Cover the bed room in towels, turn up the heat, and you may want to strip the bed down to anything you don't want to get wet.
As usual leave your comments, your thoughts, and your suggestions.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Porn Star!!!!!!
Now I'm not going to described the show I got from my girl but I will tell you why I mentioned Jenna Jamison at the beginning of this post. In many pron movies Jenna would start out by laying on her back naked or in bra and panites or something equaly sexy. Then she would begin touching her self and rubbing her pussy getting wet and excited. After doing this for a while she would begin to play with a vibrater. The whole purpose of this was to tease the audience in this case your guy.
After the show its on to the main attraction lol. As always leave your comments and leave any variations. I'm always looking to up my game so help a brother out LOL.
Friday, June 26, 2009
Monday, June 8, 2009
Boys nite in!!!
After a while my girl suggested that I should hop in the shower and then we could watch a movie together. Since she had let me have my time and enjoy what I liked to do I was all for it. Now when I came back from the shower expecting the movie we had picked up from the redbox I found a porn movie playing and I was instructed that we were todo what ever the folks on the screen did. Now we started out doing that but eventually it broke down into wild sex. (as usaul for us)
So this one can have many forms but at its base its about making it his night with porn, video games, sport, beer, junk food, and hot sex.
So what have you done for your man lately lol? And I'm sure there is a variation for the women on this maybe. flowers, lovemovie, wine, her favorite food, porn, and wild sex. LOL
As usual leave your comments of your variations and thoughts.
Remote Control
Now took the hanger and left it on my girls desk with a note telling her to bring it to bed with her. Now after she got refreshed from her shower that night I ambushed her on her way to the bed and blind folded her with one of my ties. Then I had her hold the hanger while I tied her hands to the hanger with the ties. Then I led her across the room and secured the hanger above her head to the top of the door.
Now The fun starts.....
The object here is to get the room ready while getting her juices going as well. So to accomplish this every time you do something in the room (ie. turn on the music, light the candles) return to her and remove a single article of her clothes or lightly touch or kiss her. You can make this take as long as you like. (anticipation really make this fun) Now the task you need to accomplish in the room are:
1) place a blanket on the floor in the middle of the room
2) Place the new toy in the middle of the blanket and surround it with every pillow you can find, think harem.
3) Strip down your self.
4) Set the mood.
Now by the time your all set up she should be good to go, lol.
Remove her hands from the hanger, but leave her blind folded, and lead her to the pile of pillows.
Have her get down on all fours in the pillows straddling the pillows. Then strap her into the new toy (The one I purchased had buttons on the leg straps so you could do each leg individually and then around her waste.)
Make sure she is strapped in good or when it gets good she may force it out lol.
Now after shes good to go walk around to her front and guide her head to your smaller head, if you know what I mean while keeping the remote for the vibrator in your hand. And tell her it is her job to make your head feels as good as she feels right now and switch on the vibrator. Now can keep this up for as long as you like. (ie. to completion or until your ready for some good old fashioned sex your choice) The vibrator I purchased also had several setting and speeds so we were really able to play with it a lot, I was able to increase the speed and get her really excited and decrease the speed or vibrations to allow her to come back down teasing her with it.
That's basically it. Now the language sounds kind of corny but its hard to write what really is said with out sounding like a porn flick lol. Use what ever language and terms you and yours feel comfortable with. Now as usual If you read this leave a comment If you have other variations or suggestion leave those as well.
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Soft and Hard...........
Now after the kids where asleep and she was in the shower I set the mood. Straightened out the bed heated up the Ky is a bowl, turned down the lights, and started the music. Plus adjust the temp I wanted it a little chilly.
When she came out of the shower I ambushed her at the door and presented her with the blindfold. Now after she couldn't see I removed her robe and left her standing there naked. Then I led her to the bed where I had her lay back on the bed. I placed her arms at her side and proceeded to slowly paint imaginary pictures all over her body with the make up brush. Around her nipples on her neck, around her clit and up and down her lips now when this became to much I took the handcuff and cuffed her hands above her head and went back to work.
After a couple more minutes of this i dipped the brush into ky warming oil and started over lightly blowing on the places were I applied it, now you can keep both of these up for as long as you want but depending on the person this can be very arousing as well as ticklish.
So eventually after she was squirming real well I flipped her over, had her stand up, bend over the bed, and cuffed her hands behind her back. Then whipped out my brush and oil again. Putting oil all over her butt, inner thighs, small and center of her back and neck.
Now once again you can keep this up until they can't take it any more. Another variation could be candle wax mixed in with the oil to make things last longer.
The hard part comes in when she bent over, LOL, strap up for HER PLEASURE grab the cuffs and ....................................................
Well you get the picture once again as usual post a comment and if you have any suggesting let me know.
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Sweet Seduction
Now go ahead and strut, lol, tell the victim to hop in the shower and take there time. Now while they are in the shower, put out and light the candles, put on some music, turn off the lights and check your supplies. Heat the massage oil, make the tea, set the temp in the room to cool not warm but not cold lol. Now once their shower is done have them lay face down in the middle of the bed naked. Now the rules are simple they can't touch and any time you place your tongue or mouth on the seductee you must have just taken a drink of tea or have warm tea in your mouth. No slowly massage, kiss, lick, and enjoy your self. SLOWLY this is seduction not a quickie. Then Flip and repeat. Now this whole time you stay completely clothed. Your final destination should be mmmmmmm down town lol. Once again take your time and don't forget the tea.
Now where you go from here is up to you I like to leave them wanting for two reasons. 1) Our old friend foreplay, 2) I feel its important to let my girl know that its not always about me getting off or getting mine. So buy relaxing her, helping her get hers a couple of times, then not worrying about the hardness between my legs, and just holding her, I feel I'm letting her know that.
Now If she chooses to show me some appreciation later on hey who am I to say no, lol.
So as usual tell me what you think, variations, Ideas, or what ever. I can always learn something new!
Monday, April 27, 2009
PSA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thursday, April 23, 2009
How To Catch A king!!!!!!!!! From a Kings Point of view.
1) Know your worth.
Your a good woman? Right!, lol, If your not sure stop right here and read no further. Get your life together and come back when you don't have baby daddy drama and are sure that what you want is a MAN, not a place holder in your life waiting for your king to find you. Also live a little if you under 25 you may not be ready to settle down, get your club on, kick it with the your girls, hell have that three some with you girlfriend and her man, or kiss a girl. Point is get those things out of your system that may make it hard to focus on a relationship.
2) Know what you want in a MAN!
Very Important!!!!!!!! If you don't know what you need in a man to make you happy, then how the hell are you supposed to what your king looks like when you find him. Don't accept anything less than what you deserve in a man. If you are a needy woman then a man who is really independent won't work for you. Don't hesitate to use your Astrology sites either now why I don't believe in astrology being able to predict the future I don't doubt its ability to give you a basic assessment of the men you will meet. I truly believe at are base we are what are signs say we are but the we are flavored with what is instilled in us as children and are life experiences.
As men once we reach a certain age we really stop changing but we will continue to evolve into a more complete version of who we are today.
3) Where to meet your king!!!!
We are every where lol, in the clubs, at the library and even at the rodeo. LOL. Now my personnel take on this is meet men in places that you enjoy hanging out it greatly enhances the chance that you probably have something in common. My personal choice would be the Internet and here is why. See back in they day when your mothers and grandmothers were dating they limited in the choices because they could only meet men whom they could physically encounter. So they really ended up having to settle for MR. Almost Right For Her!!!! Don't get me wrong your king may be right next door, you may have known him your whole life then again your true match might live an hour away and moves in a totally different circle than you and the chances of you meeting him are slim to none. With the Internet though 3 or 4 hours a way is a mouse click and seconds away. With the Internet you can profile potential kings, when looking for my queen I approached very scientifically. I had several question that I need answered right up front If you had a problem with them then we probably wouldn't work out. Now your questions should directly reflect the things you need to make you happy as well as the things you can't deal with in a man if it annoys you today it while drive you crazy 4 or 5 months from now. If he passes the initial questions spend a couple days chatting online and see if he can form a complete sentence or not lol. You know get to know him better, if your still feeling him then get his number and call him here his voice and continue the screening process. Now a deal breaker can come when you finally meet him because folks lie and lets be honest If you are half way smart your not posting you didn't post any unattractive pictures of your self and neither need he. LOL. Now during this time you should If he was not attentive or did not respond to your emails and requests to chat in a timely fashion then he probably isn't interested in you. I'm just keeping it real because who wants to waste their time with folks who aren't into them.
4) The first date!
!!!!!Deal Breaker!!!!!!!! Please don't be late, lol, punctuality says allot about a person. Treat this like a interview but have fun. If he looks like his picture and you look like yours, lol, then we are off to a good start. Before we got here I usually already knew whether you were booty call material or whether or not I was interested in more. You see I didn't see dating just has a hook up or meeting my future wife. A date should be two people out enjoying each others company having a good time. The getting to know each other portion should be second, I learned more about a woman by how she enjoyed her self than anything else. Whether he is a drunk or loud ass ghetto dude will all come out if you make the date fun, skip the romance on the first date. Now some folks see having sex on the first thing as a bad thing but if a woman gave it me on the first date told me she was decisive, knew what she wanted and went after. Plus once again lets not waste our time hear if he sucks in bed are you really going to be satisfied and happy. There are to many options there to be wasting your time on Mr. Wrong. Also I feel like a man should always pay on a date, even if before we went out I knew we were just going to be friends and nothing more I paid. You want a gentleman right!!!!!!
5)After 1st Date etiquette.
Once again I've heard all these rules about how soon you should call. I think you should call when you want to. If your truly interested call that night or the next day. Once again why waste your time.
My rules for dating:
You should never have to settle.
You should never have to change who you are for a man or a woman hell If you kissed a girl once, liked it and he can't deal with that then he's probably to uptight for you.
People don't change.
Good sex is important.
Intelligence is beautiful.
Attitudes from past experiences should be left at home.
No rules have fun.
If your dating, you can date more than one person as long as your clear about it up front.
If the first date sucks why should you have to wait another two or three weeks to find a new
potential King. Online you can easily meet and get to know 2 or 3 guys at a time.
Last but not least your never going to find Mr. perfect but you can find Mr. Perfect for you!
Now I'm sure there are going to be some out there who disagree with me but opinions are opinions this is what worked for me when I was looking for my Queen.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
The Morning Snooze Button Game
Now there is another variation of this suggested by the book I got the idea from such as if you have a clock radio, to call the radio station morning team and try to get them involved. Let them no what time the alarm will go off and they may even try to root you on lol which would probably increase the excitement of this game.
I chose to not tell my girl the prize I wanted from her but I planned to write her email with my request which I felt also increased the anticipation of this game. (Because now her mind is still on us and anticipating what my request will be.
So give this a shot and tell me whether you enjoyed it or not. If you have any suggestions on variations post those in comments as well. Or just leave a comment period.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Sex Games
First Topic: Online Sex Games for Couples.
Any couple with a healthy relationship will tell you that SEX is important and GOOD SEX is better. Now my personal opinion is that GOOD Sex includes fore play and keeping it fresh.
So in my search to find new ways to keep sex fresh I've come across a few online games for couples. My two favorites so far are Bliss and Secret Desires, now Bliss is a monopoly style game the free version allows you a hour of play with little customization and your stuck in the romance mood, but you still are allowed to select the toys you have available, the clothes that each of you have on and even if you have a camera available. Bliss also has some music built in that plays and changes while you play, the full version allows you to add your own music. The graphics are set up in a monopoly style pink board. Bliss is by far the most popular of its type available but that is probably because of marketing.
Now on to my favorite so far Secret Desires the free version allows you full customisation of the players, what you have on, what you like to do sexually, what you like done to you sexually, what think you would like to try but are to shy to ask, you can select on a scale for min to max what body parts you enjoy sexually being stimulated, even whether you like anal or oral. If you don't find what your into you can even add it to the list of selected desires with full descriptions provided by you. But unless your into some off the wall stuff most fetishes and likes are already there for selection. You are allowed to also select what level your at when you start ie. cool(chillen all lovey dovey) to Hot(wet and hard lol), and where you would like to be when you finish. WARNING: If you start in hot I can't guarantee you'll be able to finish the game, lol. There are even options to incorporate food and vodka or your drink of choise ie. this game will get you drunk and loose. So how far you want to take it is up to you with this one. Now the free version only allows you 15 min. games but you can play them back to back as many times as you want and it keeps the options and setting you've already selected so there is no down time.
So for new and old couples who want to keep it fresh I suggest you give these a try as well as leave me a comment about any games you know off or enjoyed. Hey even leave me a comment if you play one of these and enjoy the experience. Now if your single check out BLACKLOVECONNECT.com and find you someone to play with today lol.
ME
Monday, April 13, 2009
New Day Update
P.S. for all my single friends there is a link at the bottom of the blog for Connect Black Love . com its still under construction but check it out. If you like it or have suggestions email me or leave a comment we are trying to do something a little different with a internet dating site than what your used to, we hope. Alright thats about it my break is over and its back to class so ill talk to you later.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Another day another dollar.
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
35 years young.
Friday, January 30, 2009
Her Addiction
My style and ways are her addictions
Some will say that what I'm telling is fiction
I'm not going tell you a single lie about mine
Or make claims of oversized male egos like I've got nine
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But what I will say about mine
I'll slowly unveil an inch at a time
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Soft music and candlelight comes first
A little wine and romance before I satisfy her thirst
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She knows the way I like touch and kiss
Little slow grind around the room I just can't miss
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Just enough to get her waters to flow
Then I start to remove her clothes oh so slow
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Now once her beauty is revealed by candlelight
I lay her down and position her just how I like
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I love to kiss her body from head to toe
I enjoy giving more than receiving just so you know
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I make my way to the heat between her thighs
And start to do things to makes her breasts fall and rise
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My oral fetish she knows it well
She yells at the way I make her pearl swell
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To please me she'll even roll on top
She will feed and feed me until she pops
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Then as her thighs begin to quiver and quake
Her bodies now shaking trying to make its escape
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But there's no going back and I won't back down
I enter her slowly, its time to claim my crown
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Now her addiction finally starts to stir
She wants me, she needs me, it all becomes a blur..
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We don't go on forever not even a whole night.
We just keep on going to we both feel just right
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Then as are pleasures reach there peaks
We end this ride between the sheets
By Jessie Hunt 2008
Dreams……….
Why do I dream dreams
Dreams of unfulfilled love, Dreams of never bought Diamond Rings.
Last night I dreamt a dream like so many before
Of not getting to tell her I loved her as she walked out the door.
As I followed her through this Dream like landscape
She entered a church full of well wishers and wedding cake.
In a flash of bright light and a cacophony of sound
I was blessed with the sight of my dream woman in a long white Gown
As I viewed this scene with love and joy from my place high above
This woman, My dream girl approached the altar with the grace of a dove.
Suddenly my mind reeled and my feet stumbled backward as if I'd been shoved.
There was some other man, not me, standing to the right of the woman I loved.
.I protested and shouted and yes, I even screamed,
But my body and my voice was held back by hands unseen.
As my mind reeled with questions, I tried to stay strong.
I couldn't remember what, if anything I had done wrong.
Why do I dream dreams,
Dreams of Jazzy night club scenes, Dreams of women who are Queens.
Last night I lived a dream like one I've lived so many times before.
Lively, Dreams of good music, good friends, and crowed dance floors.
As we took are seats, enjoyed are drinks, and grooved to a damn good live band.
My senses were greeted with a site both beautiful and Grand.
A vision of beauty and ellegance burst onto the scene.
A beautiful, caramel skin woman with the confidence of a Queen.
Her beauty was stunning she seemed to glide across tile.
As she greeted each one of us, her loyal subjects with a wave and a smile.
When it was finally my time to be blessed with her gaze and honored her touch.
I tried to hide my infatuation as my neck and my face started to flush.
Her voice was like silky, smooth, velvet, with a feminine tone
Her smile was sincere sunshine I could have sworn we were alone.
As she glided from my presence I was left alone with the guys
The warmth her smile left on my soul helped me keep up my disguise.
The disguise of a man, who is happy and content with his single life.
When he truly has the dreams and aspirations to make a Queen his wife.
So tell me why I dream dreams,
Dreams of lost loves and beautiful Queens ……….
By Jessie Hunt 2008
For the love of her
Songs I Sing
You have changed my life in so many ways
No more clouds cover my sunny days
My heart and love are yours to keep
With you by my side no mountain is to steep
Every Song that I hear makes me think of you
Love songs that I sing speak my heart to you
Songs of cheats, heartbreaks, and lies I sing them too
They remind me how lucky I am that their not you
I dance to songs of fast racing tempos and beats
Dreaming of us dancing on floors and under the sheets
I sing songs of praise with a heart empty of strife
Thanking GOD every moment that you share my life
I could never go back to days with out you
To days of soulless music killed by the loss of you
With out you my heart would sing no song
Thoughts of futures without you just seem so wrong
So I’ll love with more love than it takes
I’ll hold you in my heart to ward off the breaks
I’ll continue to sing songs to express my love
Truth is we go together like hand and glove
Without you there would be no music to sing
So I'll sing songs and see what the future brings