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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Sweet Seduction

Now here is a new one for you. If you have some experience you have probably used some part or form of this already if not step your game up and get like me, LOL. Now I didn't perform this particular one, I was lucky enough to be the receiver of this erotic seduction but as usual I will be telling it from my point of view. Now this one takes a little preparation and planning. First this is all about mood, relaxation, and seduction. First off as usual let the intended victim no a day or to in advance that something is about to go down. Why? Its called foreplay, its an incredible little thing that can turn and encounter from just sex into WOW! Its all about anticipation. Ok back to the topic . Get some supplies unless your like me and mine you keep this stuff in stock lol. Some kind of herbal tea ( you can use water but I prefer tea), a towel, massage oil (baby oil will work as well), tea candles, and some soft music. 1) Changes the sheets and clean the bedroom, its easier to relax in a clean room and nothing is more relaxing than clean soft sheets. 2) Have all your supplies stashed some where near the bed. 3) Then after that wash up your self and for the ladies put on something whorish and sexy (remember this is all about seduction), me I hit the gym hard so the muscles would be a pumped up lol, hopped in the shower, lotioned up (you can't be seducing a woman all ashy), shaved, through on a pair of shorts and a tank top. Basically got ready for the club minus the clothes. My girl did her hair, make up, short short short did i say short skirt, Gstring, tank top, and high heels. <-------- I like!!!!!!!!!!

Now go ahead and strut, lol, tell the victim to hop in the shower and take there time. Now while they are in the shower, put out and light the candles, put on some music, turn off the lights and check your supplies. Heat the massage oil, make the tea, set the temp in the room to cool not warm but not cold lol. Now once their shower is done have them lay face down in the middle of the bed naked. Now the rules are simple they can't touch and any time you place your tongue or mouth on the seductee you must have just taken a drink of tea or have warm tea in your mouth. No slowly massage, kiss, lick, and enjoy your self. SLOWLY this is seduction not a quickie. Then Flip and repeat. Now this whole time you stay completely clothed. Your final destination should be mmmmmmm down town lol. Once again take your time and don't forget the tea.

Now where you go from here is up to you I like to leave them wanting for two reasons. 1) Our old friend foreplay, 2) I feel its important to let my girl know that its not always about me getting off or getting mine. So buy relaxing her, helping her get hers a couple of times, then not worrying about the hardness between my legs, and just holding her, I feel I'm letting her know that.

Now If she chooses to show me some appreciation later on hey who am I to say no, lol.

So as usual tell me what you think, variations, Ideas, or what ever. I can always learn something new!

Monday, April 27, 2009


Quick post this morning, lol. Fact you are what you eat! Fact your taste and smell are directly related to your dietary habits. Point is if your man or girl, lol, has a problem tasting you try adjusting your diet, drinking some water, and stop smoking. Eating fruit and drinking water will have you tasting sweeter and fresher. I don't know about the green but smoking cigarettes negatively affects you taste not to mention dehydrates you. lol. The one statement Pliers ever made I agree with is Taste like water with no smell, lol. So in closing in this short PSA increase the fruit in your diet, drink more water, and if you needed another reason to stop smoking other than death chances of more head. lol. Now If you agree or disagree let me KNOW!

Thursday, April 23, 2009

How To Catch A king!!!!!!!!! From a Kings Point of view.

Now I'm writing this for my single female friends out there who are trying to find a king, not a lame, not a one night stand, or a mister right now.

1) Know your worth.

Your a good woman? Right!, lol, If your not sure stop right here and read no further. Get your life together and come back when you don't have baby daddy drama and are sure that what you want is a MAN, not a place holder in your life waiting for your king to find you. Also live a little if you under 25 you may not be ready to settle down, get your club on, kick it with the your girls, hell have that three some with you girlfriend and her man, or kiss a girl. Point is get those things out of your system that may make it hard to focus on a relationship.

2) Know what you want in a MAN!

Very Important!!!!!!!! If you don't know what you need in a man to make you happy, then how the hell are you supposed to what your king looks like when you find him. Don't accept anything less than what you deserve in a man. If you are a needy woman then a man who is really independent won't work for you. Don't hesitate to use your Astrology sites either now why I don't believe in astrology being able to predict the future I don't doubt its ability to give you a basic assessment of the men you will meet. I truly believe at are base we are what are signs say we are but the we are flavored with what is instilled in us as children and are life experiences.
As men once we reach a certain age we really stop changing but we will continue to evolve into a more complete version of who we are today.

3) Where to meet your king!!!!

We are every where lol, in the clubs, at the library and even at the rodeo. LOL. Now my personnel take on this is meet men in places that you enjoy hanging out it greatly enhances the chance that you probably have something in common. My personal choice would be the Internet and here is why. See back in they day when your mothers and grandmothers were dating they limited in the choices because they could only meet men whom they could physically encounter. So they really ended up having to settle for MR. Almost Right For Her!!!! Don't get me wrong your king may be right next door, you may have known him your whole life then again your true match might live an hour away and moves in a totally different circle than you and the chances of you meeting him are slim to none. With the Internet though 3 or 4 hours a way is a mouse click and seconds away. With the Internet you can profile potential kings, when looking for my queen I approached very scientifically. I had several question that I need answered right up front If you had a problem with them then we probably wouldn't work out. Now your questions should directly reflect the things you need to make you happy as well as the things you can't deal with in a man if it annoys you today it while drive you crazy 4 or 5 months from now. If he passes the initial questions spend a couple days chatting online and see if he can form a complete sentence or not lol. You know get to know him better, if your still feeling him then get his number and call him here his voice and continue the screening process. Now a deal breaker can come when you finally meet him because folks lie and lets be honest If you are half way smart your not posting you didn't post any unattractive pictures of your self and neither need he. LOL. Now during this time you should If he was not attentive or did not respond to your emails and requests to chat in a timely fashion then he probably isn't interested in you. I'm just keeping it real because who wants to waste their time with folks who aren't into them.

4) The first date!

!!!!!Deal Breaker!!!!!!!! Please don't be late, lol, punctuality says allot about a person. Treat this like a interview but have fun. If he looks like his picture and you look like yours, lol, then we are off to a good start. Before we got here I usually already knew whether you were booty call material or whether or not I was interested in more. You see I didn't see dating just has a hook up or meeting my future wife. A date should be two people out enjoying each others company having a good time. The getting to know each other portion should be second, I learned more about a woman by how she enjoyed her self than anything else. Whether he is a drunk or loud ass ghetto dude will all come out if you make the date fun, skip the romance on the first date. Now some folks see having sex on the first thing as a bad thing but if a woman gave it me on the first date told me she was decisive, knew what she wanted and went after. Plus once again lets not waste our time hear if he sucks in bed are you really going to be satisfied and happy. There are to many options there to be wasting your time on Mr. Wrong. Also I feel like a man should always pay on a date, even if before we went out I knew we were just going to be friends and nothing more I paid. You want a gentleman right!!!!!!

5)After 1st Date etiquette.

Once again I've heard all these rules about how soon you should call. I think you should call when you want to. If your truly interested call that night or the next day. Once again why waste your time.

My rules for dating:
You should never have to settle.
You should never have to change who you are for a man or a woman hell If you kissed a girl once, liked it and he can't deal with that then he's probably to uptight for you.
People don't change.
Good sex is important.
Intelligence is beautiful.
Attitudes from past experiences should be left at home.
No rules have fun.
If your dating, you can date more than one person as long as your clear about it up front.
If the first date sucks why should you have to wait another two or three weeks to find a new
potential King. Online you can easily meet and get to know 2 or 3 guys at a time.
Last but not least your never going to find Mr. perfect but you can find Mr. Perfect for you!

Now I'm sure there are going to be some out there who disagree with me but opinions are opinions this is what worked for me when I was looking for my Queen.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

The Morning Snooze Button Game

Now this is a idea I took and tweaked slightly for me and my girls enjoyment it works like this. Now I sent her a e-card letting her know I was planning something the day before and that i would give her the specific details when I got home. (By doing this I get her mind wandering and the foreplay rolling) Once i got home I explained the rules of the game first we both needed to write a down a prize that the winner would receive. (This could be dinner, washing your clothes or something of a sexual nature.) Then I laid out the rules tomorrow morning the alarm clock will go off when it does I'll hit the snooze button, I then have from that moment until the alarm goes off again to try to make her moan, If i succeed I get the prize I secretly wrote down. If I don't succeed she gets the prize she secretly wrote down. Simple, quick, easy, fun.

Now there is another variation of this suggested by the book I got the idea from such as if you have a clock radio, to call the radio station morning team and try to get them involved. Let them no what time the alarm will go off and they may even try to root you on lol which would probably increase the excitement of this game.

I chose to not tell my girl the prize I wanted from her but I planned to write her email with my request which I felt also increased the anticipation of this game. (Because now her mind is still on us and anticipating what my request will be.

So give this a shot and tell me whether you enjoyed it or not. If you have any suggestions on variations post those in comments as well. Or just leave a comment period.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Sex Games

Now I started this initially as a site to post some poetry I wrote and some of my thoughts on certain subjects and it will probably remain that way the difference will be the topic choice.

First Topic: Online Sex Games for Couples.

Any couple with a healthy relationship will tell you that SEX is important and GOOD SEX is better. Now my personal opinion is that GOOD Sex includes fore play and keeping it fresh.
So in my search to find new ways to keep sex fresh I've come across a few online games for couples. My two favorites so far are Bliss and Secret Desires, now Bliss is a monopoly style game the free version allows you a hour of play with little customization and your stuck in the romance mood, but you still are allowed to select the toys you have available, the clothes that each of you have on and even if you have a camera available. Bliss also has some music built in that plays and changes while you play, the full version allows you to add your own music. The graphics are set up in a monopoly style pink board. Bliss is by far the most popular of its type available but that is probably because of marketing.

Now on to my favorite so far Secret Desires the free version allows you full customisation of the players, what you have on, what you like to do sexually, what you like done to you sexually, what think you would like to try but are to shy to ask, you can select on a scale for min to max what body parts you enjoy sexually being stimulated, even whether you like anal or oral. If you don't find what your into you can even add it to the list of selected desires with full descriptions provided by you. But unless your into some off the wall stuff most fetishes and likes are already there for selection. You are allowed to also select what level your at when you start ie. cool(chillen all lovey dovey) to Hot(wet and hard lol), and where you would like to be when you finish. WARNING: If you start in hot I can't guarantee you'll be able to finish the game, lol. There are even options to incorporate food and vodka or your drink of choise ie. this game will get you drunk and loose. So how far you want to take it is up to you with this one. Now the free version only allows you 15 min. games but you can play them back to back as many times as you want and it keeps the options and setting you've already selected so there is no down time.

So for new and old couples who want to keep it fresh I suggest you give these a try as well as leave me a comment about any games you know off or enjoyed. Hey even leave me a comment if you play one of these and enjoy the experience. Now if your single check out and find you someone to play with today lol.


First off a little about me, I have a lot of sides, I'm the romantic, the lover, the son, the father, the handy man, and many more. I envision my self as a Alpha Male, its ingrained in me to be the best man I can be, don't get me wrong lol I'm far from perfect if you don't believe me ask my girl. I'm a procrastinator, my credit needs work, I'm logical to a fault at times (meaning A+B = C so why are you mad), if I say I'm going to do something I may do it if I don't get distracted by a new video game or something, and when I'm in a mood I can be the biggest asshole you'll meet.

Monday, April 13, 2009

New Day Update

Well its been a minute since I last updated, lol, lets see where to begin. I was layed off from Schlumberger, Hired at DELL making better money, went on a cruise to Cozumel with my girl friend and as usual enjoying life. I plan to start trying to update this thing regulary not that with my new job I'll probably have the time to work on it more. Plus I plan to try turn this thing into something more than just a blog.

P.S. for all my single friends there is a link at the bottom of the blog for Connect Black Love . com its still under construction but check it out. If you like it or have suggestions email me or leave a comment we are trying to do something a little different with a internet dating site than what your used to, we hope. Alright thats about it my break is over and its back to class so ill talk to you later.